For most people with lactose intolerance, cutting down on lactose or avoiding it, and swapping in lactose-free alternatives, is enough to keep the symptoms under control.
How much you need to change depends on how sensitive you are to lactose. Some people can take a little lactose without any trouble. Others get symptoms after eating food with only a tiny amount of it.
If you want to test what you can and can't eat, bring in new foods slowly, not all at once. That way you get used to any foods you might be sensitive to, and you can spot the ones that cause problems.
When you eat fewer products containing lactose, or none at all, you can miss out on certain vitamins and minerals, and your risk of complications goes up. So you'll also need to be sure you're getting enough nutrition, either from lactose-free foods or from dietary supplements.
If you or your child are extremely sensitive to lactose, talk to your doctor about your diet.
Milk products are rich in calcium, which your bones need to stay healthy, so you may need regular bone density checks.
You may be referred to a dietitian (an expert in diet and nutrition). They can advise on which foods should be part of your diet, or your child's.